Out of the blue, I am receiving books this week (or probably have them by the time you read this since I write my blog posts several days in advance).
Back in my early days of blogging oh so long ago (has it really been 7 years?), I was part of a gated blogging community called the Blogging Network, which changed its name to Blogit to have a more hip name so that more kids would come play. It was kind of a fun place to write where your membership fees were given out to the bloggers based on the popularity of their blogs. I couldn't quit my day job but I made more than enough to cover my own fees for being on the word playground.
That's where I "met" Lynette. We both eventually left Blogit and entered the real world of blogging where just anybody could swing by. I remember going from being one of the cool kids to having 6 readers a day. Luckily, all that mattered was that I was writing so I just kept on going.
Over the years, we've continued to read each others blogs and have shared plenty of emails on events in our lives. During this time, I have come to believe that we are kindred spirits. Our lives are very different at just about every level and yet we share many of the lessons and meanings of life's experiences. Do you ever talk to someone and just know they *know* what you're talking about?
Many of the things that we talk about are vague or hard to put into words so it's wonderful to have someone that picks up on the feeling of the idea that the words won't wrap around.
On that note, Lynette thought of me when she read My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist's Personal Journey. A book about a brain scientist that has a stroke and lives life in the timelessness of the right hemisphere of her brain before training herself to use the left hemisphere again. I'm really looking forward to reading it and hope that it has arrived and I'm well into it by the time you are reading this.
The person that got me to leave the safety of the Blogit community was my longest-time friend, Rick. We have known each since about 1981 or 2, when he moved in next door to me. His dad had just retired from the Air Force and moved them back "home".
Rick's that one friend you have that no matter how much time has gone by, the conversation that starts when you get off the plane seems to be a continuation of your thoughts from a moment ago. Instead of feeling like years have passed, it feels like you just ran to the kitchen for a drink and the conversation just starts back up.
Sugar jokingly calls us soul mates but if it's true, it's not in a manner like the movies would suggest. Where I have a feeling that I'm traveling a similar path to Lynette, Rick and I are diametrical opposites.
He's good with details. I like the big picture. He enjoys complexity and intricacies. I simplify. He's fiercely opinionated. I keep my opinions close. He's outgoing. I'm not. He thinks the game is played to be won. I think it's for fun. He played basketball. I played soccer. He watches college football. I watch NFL.
I could probably go on and on all day with this back and forth comparison of our differences but in the end, none of it matters. For some reason, there is a very real connection. Tangible.
Maybe we fought side by side in some hellacious battle in a previous life. It's that kind of feeling.
We do have a couple of connecting points (creativity, words, and Frisbee golf) but those in themselves don't account for the strength of the connection.
As a surprise this week, Rick announced that I have two books headed in my direction, one on audio and one in print.
The book is The Last Lectureby Randy Pausch based on a lecture that he gave. Many people gave talks under the Last Lecture theme where they were to impart wisdom as if they were dying. The difference for Pausch was that he truly was dying. The reasons Rick gave for giving me the book has me anxiously waiting for it to arrive.
The audio is something by Thom Hartmann. I don't know the title yet but looking over the titles that I've linked to, I'm sure it's going to be interesting. In fact, I'll probably be adding a few more of Hartmann's books to my collection after I finish these. I do know that the one on its way is political to give me a different perspective on my new-found interest in the running of our country.
I wanted to take a few minutes to publicly thank these two wonderful people in my life, for the books sure but more importantly for what they have added to my life in so many other ways. Thanks.
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