My ex is the queen of spin. She should have found a way to take a job as a political advisor. She has an ability that is almost magical (black arts but still) in her ability to get people to believe her and for the remainder of the Grim Tales posts, I'll refer to her as Darth because she has a Sith Lord's ability to manipulate people.
When we decided to get divorced, she started a propaganda campaign that was so intense and so all-encompassing that only a handful of people weren't caught in the net. People who a week before were sympathetic to me because even though I was married, I was raising my daughters essentially as a single parent and doing a dang good job at it, now felt it necessary to rush in and rescue my daughters from my evil grasp.
When we were married, Darth used to complain that my daughters liked me better. They were both daddy's girls. You want to know the secret to that. Spend lots of loving time with your kids. I had to step in several times to back her off of her verbal rampages against these girls who were (and still are) both incredibly smart, beautiful, and well-behaved. Quality time will naturally occur during quantity time.
She made a blitzkrieg attempt over a weekend and continued for years to make sure that the propaganda never wore off. She was so effective that even members of my family believed her. In all subsequent court battles, Tia and I found ourselves all alone in trying to save the girls. It was frustrating in that we were so truthful and Darth was so deceiving and yet people believed her. There have been costs involved, not just to my daughters but to others as well.
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